https://jochum.dev/en/tags/responsibility/ Recent content in Responsibility on jochum.dev https://jochum.dev/images/20260503-me.jpg https://jochum.dev/images/20260503-me.jpg Hugo en Wed, 27 May 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://jochum.dev/en/personal-development/20260527-the-quiet-violence-of-victimhood/ Wed, 27 May 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://jochum.dev/en/personal-development/20260527-the-quiet-violence-of-victimhood/ <p>There is a form of self-destruction that feels like protection. It is called: I am the victim, everyone else is to blame.</p> <p>I know this attitude from the inside. For years I was the poor one. When something did not work, it was down to the circumstances or the people around me. Above all to my parents. They were the address for my blame for years, for much that I should have stood up for myself.</p> https://jochum.dev/en/personal-development/20260521-the-oppressed-oppress-the-free-make-free/ Thu, 21 May 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://jochum.dev/en/personal-development/20260521-the-oppressed-oppress-the-free-make-free/ <p>I write this not from theory. I was a victim long enough to know what that feels like from the inside. And I have myself oppressed — made people feel small, relieved myself at their expense, passed on the burden that lay on me. Both belong to me. Neither is to be glossed over.</p> <p>Today I am free. Or more precisely: I am on the way. I am trying to be a warrior of light, in Coelho&rsquo;s sense — that is, someone who falls, rises again, doubts, keeps going. Not a hero. A practitioner.</p>