https://jochum.dev/en/tags/letting-go/ Recent content in Letting Go on jochum.dev https://jochum.dev/images/20260503-me.jpg https://jochum.dev/images/20260503-me.jpg Hugo en Sun, 03 May 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://jochum.dev/en/spirituality/20260503-hosea-and-i/ Sun, 03 May 2026 00:00:00 +0000 https://jochum.dev/en/spirituality/20260503-hosea-and-i/ <p>Today I ended the contact.</p> <p>Not out of anger. Because it had to be — for her and her new partner, and for me.</p> <p>It hurts. The time with her was beautiful.</p> <hr> <h2 id="head-and-heart">Head and Heart</h2> <p>The head knows what it is doing. The heart loves unconditionally. Two different things entirely.</p> <p>Three years of relationship. Three years of friendship after that.</p> <p>And now: silence.</p> <hr> <h2 id="hosea">Hosea</h2> <p>Hosea married a woman who would betray him. He knew it. He did it anyway. Later he bought her back — fifteen pieces of silver and some barley.</p>